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When to Buy Your Wedding Dress: Your Go-To Shopping Timeline

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We break down the best shopping timeline and uncover exactly when to buy your wedding dress before you walk down the aisle.

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25 Marquise Engagement Rings That Prove The Style Is Totally Back

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The old-school cut is having a moment! Marquise engagement rings are having a moment, and you can shop 25 of our favorite marquise cut engagement rings.

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What Do People Do on Honeymoons? (Outside the Bedroom!) | Brides

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Your honeymoon will be all bedroom romps and luxurious lounge chairs on the beach with expertly-crafted cocktails, right? Not necessarily. So what do people do on honeymoons?

“Many couples naturally assume that their honeymoon will be something akin to a chick flick with all its romance and passion,” says Laura Brotherson, marriage and sex therapist. And while it will certainly be wonderful, it will also be filled with surprises — little things no one ever told you about. Here, the inside scoop on what happens on a honeymoon.

1. The trip will bring you closer.

Any vacation in which you share experiences and make memories will bond two people, but there’s something to be said for the first time you check into a hotel with the same last name, just like there’s a special thrill in telling the waiter you’re celebrating your first days as husband and wife. It really hits you on your honeymoon that you’re really in this together and it’s official.

2. Sex will not necessarily be an everyday occurrence.

We conducted a survey of 138 newlyweds and asked how many times did they, ahem, get busy? The answers ranged from multiple times a day to zero.The majority (32 percent) said they got down once a day.

One bride we surveyed shared that she thought something was wrong when her husband wasn’t interested in sex on the daily. “When my husband declined to dive into bed with me on the fourth day of our honeymoon, I called a friend and wondered aloud if something was already wrong with our marriage. After all, aren’t you supposed to have sex every day of this particular vacation?”

No! There’s no “supposed to” — every couple is different, and that bride is in good company: 28 percent of the newlyweds also said they were intimate every couple of days.

Another 28 percent answered more than once a day; 6 percent said the magic happened only once on the trip; and a final 6 percent shared that sex never happened at all.

3. Speaking of getting busy, the actual wedding night might not be fireworks.

“Couples may not realize how exhausted they may be after their wedding preparations, travel, and the wedding day celebrations,” says Brotherson. “And after a long though exciting wedding day, the first night may not always be the best time to have a great sexual experience together.”

4. You’ll learn new things about your spouse.

You might think you know everything about your partner, but according to 21 percent of brides we surveyed said they learned new things about them on the honeymoon. “I found out my husband likes spa treatments as much as I do,” one bride dished. “He is excellent at driving on winding country roads,” another bride revealed. “We should not go sea kayaking together,” a third bride admitted.

5. You’ll share your newlywed status!

You might not wear “Mrs.”-labeled everything (although if you do, do it with pride!) but you’ll definitely find yourself sharing the news. One bride shared that while she and her husband were in Maui, a long-married couple told her they’d been married for fifty years, at which point the normally shy bride couldn’t help but blurt out: “We’ve been married four days!”

In addition to sharing the news with fellow travelers, make sure to mention the good news while making your hotel reservation and checking in. Most hotels and resorts have something special for newlyweds — from complimentary cocktails to room upgrades — so don’t be shy and take advantage of this special time in your life.

6. You might find yourself avoid social media.

Sure, you’ll want to check your phone and social media accounts occasionally, but many couples make an agreement to try to restrain themselves from social media and use it less than you usually would. The reason? You’ll want to save special moments for the two of you, and the two of you alone. (Bonus: By avoiding social media, you’ll return to tons of tagged wedding photos and comments that will extend that special newlywed time even more!)

7. You’ll wear sexy lingerie.

Being surrounded by the snow capped Rockies or warm tropical beaches might dictate what you wear during the day, pull out all the stops for a special nighttime ensemble that will work regardless of locale. Every honeymoon needs at least one sexy, special lingerie moment and regardless of style, color or cut — you will both be glad you packed it.

8. You’ll indulge.

While many brides-to-be stick to strict nutritional, fitness or lifestyle regimens in preparation for their big day, be sure to relax and live a little (or a lot) while honeymooning. Think about what indulgence means for you as individuals, and as a couple — and then do it! Whether it’s a few cocktails and a delectable desert, a luxurious spa treatment or two, or just ditching alarms and schedules, be sure to change things up and really let it all go to enjoy yourselves as much as you can.

9. You just might catch a sunrise.

In your daily routine, sunrises usually mean alarm clocks and sunsets mean the day went by and another is on the way but on vacation, they’re magical. Witnessing both may be a bit exhausting, but be sure to set aside time to share at least one together. Wake up early one morning and watch the sunrise from a special spot. (Be sure to have the coffee ready!) Or, if waking up before dawn sounds just awful to you, opt for the latter and cozy up with some wine as you watch the sun set on an amazing day spent with your new spouse.

10. You’ll take tons of pictures.

We all know a picture is worth a thousand words, but we happen to think wedding and honeymoon photos are worth even more. Be sure to snap tons of photos throughout your experience, while maintaining a balance between being present in the moment and enjoying it, and capturing it too. You’ll want to have tangible mementos of this once in a lifetime trip to share for years and generations to come, so shoot away and then create an album or memory book upon your return.

11. The honeymoon may not live up to your expectations.

You’ve been dreaming about this particular trip long enough to have made every imaginary moment movie-perfect. So that what you’ve dreamt up doesn’t fall short, it’s smart to discuss your expectations before you board your flight. Getting on the same page about everything from sex to how much R&R you’ll crave can be “the best preparation for a wonderfully positive and fulfilling honeymoon experience,” Brotherson says.

12. You’ll be exhausted.

Of course, your honeymoon will be filled with unforgettable and amazing moments, but just remember to not get upset if something unexpected happens — it’s totally normal! “Most couples are exhausted,” says relationship expert April Masini. “They’ve been planning for the wedding, are stressing about the marriage, and taking care of everyone but themselves.”

To combat exhaustion, Masini suggests couples take a red-eye straight from the reception to the honeymoon. “Chances are you’ll sleep on the plane and arrive at your destination during the day,” Masini says. “You can nap and be ready for a first night — give or take a few time zones — rested and ready to romp.”

Or, you can postpone your honeymoon for a week, month or longer. “This gives you a chance to rest up for a great honeymoon that you might otherwise snooze through,” Masini notes.

13. You might just stay in the hotel room and unwind.

What do people do on honeymoons? Sometimes not much at all! One bride we surveyed shared that she was anticipating an adventure-filled vacation in Cancun — but found she and her groom never left the honeymoon suite. “I watched movies and read and he played video games,” she said. “It sounds so boring, but we both just wanted to relax.”

It’s not just about being need to relax — it’s also about taking a day (or more!) to let the the major life change sink in, together.

“The first day of our honeymoon, my husband and I stayed in the hotel room except to go get food. After all the planning and excitement, all we wanted to do was be able to decompress and be with other, completely away from the world. After that, we went out and did tons of outdoor activities, but at first, we secluded ourselves in the room!” another bride shared.

14. You might fight — and that’s totally normal.

What in the world could there be to fight about on your honeymoon? A lot, actually. Spending 24/7 together with anyone can be tough, and that includes your new spouse.

“It’s not unusual to get in an argument on your honeymoon because emotions are running high for the wedding,” says Dr. Jane Greer, New York-based relationship expert. So, no need to speculate about “what this means for your future” — it just means you are a normal couple!

The best thing you can do after any disagreement is take a breather, but this is particularly true when you’re staying in close quarters with your S.O. “Tell yourself to calm down and know that the more you yell, the worse things will get,” says Dr. Greer. “Take a few minutes on your own to calm down, then regroup and agree to put the issue on hold.”

There’s never a good time to fight, but it’s particularly rough when it happens just before you were heading out the door, whether it was to a romantic dinner or surf lessons on the beach. As awkward as it may seem, Dr. Greer urges you to follow through with those plans. “To avoid ruining the rest of your trip, just remind yourself that moving on with the activities you had planned with your partner can actually help you with your anger,” says Dr. Greer. “You can let them know that you’re still upset and have feelings about your disagreement, but emphasize that you’d rather not let this issue spoil the fun time you have planned together.”

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34 Ultra-Stylish Plum Bridesmaid Dresses

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Deciding what color to choose for a bridesmaid dress is a far-from-easy task. As a bride-to-be, you want to choose a hue that you love (it’s your wedding after all!), but at the same time you want the shade to be flattering on a range of complexions and feel fitting to the venue you choose for your ‘I dos’. That’s a tall order! If you’re planning a fall or winter wedding, plum bridesmaid dresses are a gorgeous choice we’re loving right now.

On the heels of lavender as the It shade of spring and summer, plum is the perfect transitional color if you’re into purple tones, but want something deeper in the cooler months. Rich and elegant, it’s the type of color that flatters all skin tones making it extremely versatile for every bridesmaid in your party and will feel stylish in any setting whether you’re having a rustic wedding outdoors or a traditional ceremony in a church.

Like the fruit, plum can actually vary in terms of its pigment, having either red or blue undertones. If you’re going for a mixed palette for your bridesmaids, you’ll want to make sure the dresses you choose all fall within a similar spectrum. For a variegated bridesmaid lineup, plum is a gorgeous shade to mix with lighter shades of purple like lavender, magenta or orchid whether you opt for a range of solids or want to incorporate floral prints into the mix. For a bolder bridesmaid lineup, plum is striking with other colors including shades of green like sage, pistachio, or mint, or warmer tones like marigold and dandelion. For a vibrant pop, chartreuse is gorgeous as an accent color, too. If you’d prefer just a splash of color with plum bridesmaid dresses, you can integrate these colors into a bouquet or with accessories.

Here, we pulled together an assortment of plum bridesmaid dresses to consider for your wedding day, with options starting at under $100! From halter necklines to one-shoulder styles and strapless silhouettes in a range of mini, midi, and maxi lengths, you’re sure to spot one you and your ’maids will love.

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